Charity or love needs connection, but pity and mercy do not. Compassion precedes the miraculous.
[Matthew 14:14] And being filled with compassion He healed their sick.
God is love. Period. His essence is love, in which one will never find any double talk, ulterior motives like seizing an advantageous occasion because someone has made him or herself vulnerable. The potency of that love is—by earthly means—immeasurable. However, it can be experienced.
If I did not experience it first, after granting God my permission to overpower me with His love, I would only blabber and ramble, using, void of any practical basis, catchy and good sounding sentences.